Friendship...

How do you grow a friendship? Growing a friendship is a risky business if really think about it. What if the one we meet on the bus, or in our new office, was once a serial killer or a rapist, or someone who’d kill you the moment you know more about them.

But we do it anyway. Why?

Well there’s a thing called a “Mask” that all people wear when they meet new people. It’s a way for them to socialize without getting mocked of their true colors. Though some may use it to impress others so as to make new friends, others use it to fool others. But either way, these people still use these “Masks” to hide who they truly are.

But there are people who doesn’t use those “Masks” to impress others, nor to fool. These people are true to their own, hiding nothing and showing nothing. Just plain them. And you know what, I’m among the lucky ones to have met those kinds of guys. And to be honest, it isn’t too glamorous as many may think it. But I think that’s the beauty of it, it stinks! Because its the stinky one that always sticks! :)

This article was written by one of my friends. I call him "spongebhabz", sad to say our friendship ends because of misunderstanding and some other reason. I'm hoping that time will come, me and him talk as if there's nothing happened. :)

Amalayer Video becomes trending

Amalayer has become a trending topic on twitter, facebook and maybe on other social media sites. I was just curious when I saw the term “Amalayer” on facebook, what that was all about and what that term means. I viewed the video and found that this train commuter yelling at a lady guard over her failure to follow security procedures. I don’t know if the lady guard has also done something that offended her, BUT is that the right way of treating others? As if you are humiliating someone and telling to other people that “hey people! Watch me; I am lecturing this person on how to say sorry”. I am not going to be bias. For the lady guard, maybe she did something to irritate or offend the commuter that’s why the commuter reacts on that way. For the amalayer girl, she should not yell or treat the guard like that, as if she is the VIP commuter in that train. 

I like the comment of Pio Gante in Inquirer news, said:

Whoever the right and wrong in this incident, we should still act as what Golden rule says:

If we want others respect us, we should be the one who should respect others and vice versa…

BTW, the term “amalayer” derived from the phrase “I’m a liar” that Salvosa kept on shouting at Casinas. That term really become trending on twitter..ahahaha

If you want to read more and view the video about this issue just visit this http://technology.inquirer.net/20314/train-passenger-goes-ballistic-video-of-incident-goes-viral

Sulat sa matinong anak...

hahahha... natawa lang ako dito sa letter.. ang mga kabataan nga naman ngayon (hindi ko namn nigeneral ah..karamihan lang)... madami ding tulad nito, kala mo nag-aaral yun naman pala puro barkada, lakwatsa, bulakbol..akala naman nila pinupulot lang ang pera..hindi ba nila iniisip kung ilang balde ng pawis ang pumatak para lang mapag-aral sila? (galit?! hehhe, nagpapaliwanag lang) Sana lang maisip ng mga estudyante, magiging estudyante, o  anak yung mga sacrifice ng mga magulang nila at masuklian din naman ng magagandang grades. 

Ano kaya magiging future ng mga ganitong estudyante?

• tambay
• pal - palamunin
• walang stable na trabaho etc.

sabi nga nila nasa huli ang pagsisisi..wag mo naman hintayin pa na magsisi ka..kumilos ka! mag-aral ka! 

                

Learn to appreciate everything while you still have it

Boy:    Hi baby!! Kamusta ka na? Ang
            saya saya ko ngayon!!
Girl:    Teka lang text ka na lang mamaya.
            Busy ako kasi sa thesis namin.
Boy:    Ehh mamaya na yan baby. Usap
            muna tayo. Miss na kasi kita ehhh :)
Girl:    Kailangan ko ngang matapos to,
            kasi nga malapit na ang due nito.
Boy:    Sige na baby, minsan lang naman ako man lalambing ng husto eh. Gusto
            kita makasama ngayon, ipagpabukas mo na lang yan. Please? :D
Girl:    Ano ba kase?! Bigyan mo  naman ako ng oras sa sarili ko oh?! Hindi mo ba naiintindihan?!
            Project ko to! Thesis namin!! PWEDE BA? ORAS NAMAN!!
            HINDI NAMAN IKAW LAGI SAYO IIKOT
            ANG MUNDO KO!! WAG MO NGA MUNA AKO I TEXT!!
Boy:    Sorry baby. Mahal na mahal po kita. Sige po.. Sorry.. Text na lang kita mamaya...
Boy:    Hi baby, hindi ko matiis na hindi ka itext. Gusto ko po talagang makausap ka.
            Gusto ko maging masaya ulit :D
Boy:    Hi baby, hindi ka parin nagrereply.. Kamusta na po thesis mo diyan?
Boy:    Baby... Di ka pa rin nag rereply..Nag aalala na po ako sayo...
Boy:    Baby 10pm na... Dalawang Oras ka ng hindi nag rereply sakin, ui miss na po kita. I love you po...
Boy:    Uhm baby.. I love you. Sana po ok ka lang diyan. Andito lang ako palagi,
            malapit na kitang laging makasama :)
Girl:     Diba sabi ko sayo mag tetext ako sayo pag tapos na ko dito sa THESIS ko?!
             Hindi mo ba naiintindihan yun?!!?Ano bang mahirap sa BUSY at hindi mo maintindihan?!
             Parang wala ng bukas eh. Ang OA mo naman! Pwede ba?! Matulog ka na lang!
Boy:     Sorry baby.. Ok po.. Goodnight po sayo. I love you.. Mag iingat ka palagi,lagi kitang
             babantayan. Andito lang ako, hindi ako mawawala sayo.

. . Kinabukasan ..........
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Girl:      Baby, gising na po. Sorry po kagabi sa mga nasabi ko. Busy lang talaga ako.
              Kain ka na po, papasok na ako..
Girl:      Gising ka na, papasok ka na. Text mo ko pag gising mo..
Girl:      Ui, bakit hindi ka pa nagtetext. Break na namin. Pumasok ka ba? Wala ka bang load?
              Ui... Text ka naman..
Boy:      Anak.. Iniwan na niya tayo..Iniwan na ko ng anak ko at iniwan ka na rin ng kasintahan mo.
             Iniwan na niya lahat ng mahal niya sa buhay. Nasabi ba niya sayo na may taning ang buhay niya?
             Ngayon ang pangatlong taon na ibinigay ng doktor sa kanya, akala namin hindi totoo, wala naman
             kasi makakapagsabi ng buhay ng isang tao. Pero nagulat kami, hindi na rin kinaya ng puso niya.
             Ginigising namin siya kaninang umaga, hindi na siya nagigising. May huling text pa nga sayo, na hindi
             na send ito ang sabi niya sayo anak " Mag-iingat ka palagi, huwag kang iiyak. Pasensya hindi ko
             sinabi sayo, ayaw kong ipaalam sayo dahil ayaw kong mamroblema ka sa kalagayan ko, pati sa
             thesis mo, ayaw kong dumagdag. Hindi ko alam kung mapalad pa kong sisinagan ng araw bukas.
            Araw-araw akong nagdadasal na sana bigyan niya ako lagi ng araw para makita ka, araw para
            makasama ka, sobrang mahal kita. Sayang, yung huling araw ko dito di man lang kitang nakausap.
            Pero naiintindihan kita..Baka nga naman ikabagsak mo pa yan. Sorry talaga. I love you baby, promise me. Magiging matatag ka.

How sad...:(


"Learn to appreciate everything while you still have it.

Because the common mistake of a person is appreciating something when it's gone..."